How To Get A Girlfriend: 5 Key Skills To Master

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Today we’re going to dive into the topic of how to get a girlfriend. If you’ve been keeping up with the latest trends, you may have noticed that more and more people are moving away from the idea of being in a relationship. Whether it’s meeting, charming, and seducing a girl at the bar, or using your pro messaging skills to hook up with women via tinder or other dating apps, it’s becoming more socially acceptable for both men and women to seek out casual sex and nothing more. This is the so-called ‘dating apocalypse’ that we’re living in.

However, maybe you met a girl that you really like, and want to be more than just the guy she Netflix and chills with. If this is what’s going through your mind then this article on how to get a girlfriend is for you. There are some very simple ways you can get her to see you as potential boyfriend material, and also come across as very attractive to any girl who’s looking. The following skills will help you get a girlfriend.

5 skills for how to get a girlfriend

1) Develop boyfriend-type skills

Guess what? Women love the kind of men who can take good care of them. They see it as a form of dominance, and also as a sign that if she were to choose to have children with you someday, you’d be sure to not let them wander out the window or into the woods where their (lack of) baby defensive skills would render them completely helpless. It’s a sign that you care enough about yourself to manage and have ambition in life, which is always attractive.

You’re wondering what boyfriend skills are? Anything that helps you look after someone. Knowing how to cook, giving backrubs and massages, taking an interest in personal fitness and well-being, the ability to brighten someone’s day – all of these qualities add a tremendous amount of value to you. I’m not saying that you’re not valuable if you don’t possess these skills, just saying that they’re a huge help! Having a sense of fashion, being able to contribute something to her life, etc… If you’re not doing any of these things, rest assured that it’s holding you back.

2) Know what you’re looking for and don’t settle for less

Here’s a simple concept you should grasp onto for how to get a girlfriend. Most men drift through the dating world, entirely oblivious to the kind of women they want to attract. They’re not even sure what they’re looking for. They’ve been hungry for so long that they’ll just settle for whatever they can get. Imagine a man who’s been lost out in the desert, found his way out, and doesn’t care what he eats, as long as it’s something. Anything.

This describes the dating lives of the majority of men around the world – they don’t care what they get, as long as it’s something, anything to fend off the loneliness. Many women are the same way. They’d be way better off making a list of the kind of qualities they’re looking for in a potential partner instead of drifting around aimlessly, clueless to what they really want, and pushing someone up their hill of standards. Have standards for yourself. It makes it much easier to qualify someone for the position of your lucky lady.

3) Use future pacing right from the start

This is a somewhat advanced technique, but definitely the kind of skill you’ll want to master and make use of. Future pacing basically means talking about activities the two of you will be doing in the future, it’s as simple as that. If you’re listing off numerous exciting ideas for future plans, you may be able to get her investing in you that much more by sparking her emotions. It’s pretty simple – mention cool, fun things you’ll be doing together, and this will make her want to spend more time with you.

4) Create inside jokes

In group situations, inside jokes tend to isolate someone, but outside of those situations, they can be used to draw someone closer to you by recalling past emotional investment. If you’re looking to get close with someone, you’ll want to have numerous inside jokes with them. Something as simple as a funny pet name, or anything that reminds her of all the fun times you’ve had works perfectly. Reciprocating relationships start with inside jokes, and this is the kind of ideal relationship you’ll want to be in.

Non-reciprocating relationships are the absolute worst. We’ve all been there, putting way more emotional investment into the relationship than the other person, which always leaves the investor broken or scarred. Don’t put yourself in this situation right from the get-go. Start off in a way where you’re both giving and receiving – reciprocation.

5) Make your dates incredibly interesting

Who would you rather date? Someone who’s boring and lacks creativity, or someone who’s fun, creative, and whom you can’t wait to hang out with again? I know you’d rather date the second type, and women are the same. You want to make sure that you’re being fun and exciting, taking her on dates that rile up her emotional investment, and then go from there.

Also, take the initiative to actually ask her out! It’ll get the ball rolling much easier.

These were some tips taken from top-level dating coach Christian Hudson’s #1 training program called The Girlfriend Activation System. If you’re interested in getting an amazing girlfriend, then I highly recommend you discover his 3 proven-to-work steps for attracting your dream girl and turning her into your loving, loyal girlfriend. The best part is, these 3 steps can even be used to break free of the friend zone, and win over that girl who’s hard to get…

==> Use these 3 steps to get the girlfriend of your dreams


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