The Desire System is a closed-door recorded webinar where psychological researcher/dating coach/master pick up artist (PUA) Dr. David Tian reveals his secret system for effortlessly turning women on to the point where they’re the ones making the moves on you, trying to win you over. This in-depth Desire System review will provide you with everything you need to know about the product, and includes the pros, the cons, and individual ratings for our product criteria in the product summary section at the end.
(If you’re wanting to learn more about David, his life story, and how he went about creating The Desire System, feel free to read our David Tian Biography)
The complete training program consists of more than 8 hours worth of webinar video footage, including Chapter Quizzes at the end of each segment, and also features a few of David’s dating coach colleagues, such as Girlfriend Activation System creator Christian Hudson, expert PUA Jason Capital, and relationship expert David Wygant, to name a few. This Desire System review will also give you with some detailed descriptions of each of the 10 Desire System videos, the 8 LUST videos, the bonus programs, and the 8-month training course called “The Way Of The Rake”, which you’ll also gain access to.
What’s the basis for the Desire System you may be wondering? Well, the system describes in detail how you can use a psychological process called “emotional contagion” (David’s secret trick) to transfer feelings and emotions of intense attraction over to any woman you’re interacting with. Transferring these emotions doesn’t even have to come in the form of verbal communication either.
In fact, David describes how he discovered this psychological process while he was living overseas in a foreign country, where most of the women didn’t even speak English. Yet by using emotional contagion through non-verbal communication, he was able to almost effortlessly get numerous gorgeous women horny for him and sleep with them despite the language barrier. It was at this point where David decided he would begin teaching his new breakthrough seduction techniques to a few of his private coaching clients, and eventually to the rest of the world via The Desire System.
When you buy The Desire System, you’ll basically discover the step-by-step blueprint for how you’re going to use David’s many secret techniques to spark emotional contagion in a woman, and transfer your pure and true feelings of attraction and desire over to her through neurological pathways. This causes her to feel the exact same attraction and desire for you at a subconscious level.
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Wondering if The Desire System is the right choice for you? Continue reading this Desire System review and I’ll let you know whether or not this product is the right choice for you based on your lifestyle and goals, or whether you’d be better off spending your money elsewhere…
The Desire System & Trick Revealed
Chapter 1 – Introduction: With this introductory video, Christian Hudson (the creator of the company called The Social Man (TSM), for which The Desire System is one of the main products) briefly introduces Dr. David Tian to the audience. David goes on to give a short summary of his life story and then explains how he discovered The Desire System, also known as the “Emotional Activation System”. (This segment is just over 6 minutes in length)
Chapter 2 – The System In Action: With this video, David gives a condensed explanation as to how the Emotional Activation System really works, and also shows a real life demonstration of the system in action on one of his female volunteers. He explains how attraction is an emotion, which is created by thoughts, and those thoughts are attached to feelings, and it’s these feelings you want to use to make her feel good and become attracted to you. He provides numerous examples of different kinds of positive feelings which, when you genuinely feel them, can be used to make her feel those positive feelings also. (This segment is just over 15 minutes in length)
Chapter 3 – The Science Of Attraction: With this video, David explains the 3 main scientific concepts you need to understand to learn why the Emotional Activation System works. These 3 main concepts are that attraction happens unconsciously, micro expressions are unconscious reflections of feelings and vibes, and you must feel things around her that are attractive to her. He goes on to explain in detail what each of these 3 concepts really mean, and how you can use them to make succeeding with the Emotional Activation System much easier. (This segment is just over 11 minutes in length)
Chapter 4 – The Approach: With this video, David explains everything you’ll need to know from the opening, to initiating the conversation, to setting the context of the interaction. He includes another real life demonstration with another one of his female volunteers, where he shows exactly what your feelings and vibe should be like when you’re opening and initiating the conversation, and then goes on to give a detailed play-by-play of everything that went on in the demonstration. He mentions how you really have to understand what’s going on in the demonstration and how to go about your interactions with women the right way, otherwise your interactions won’t be nearly as effective and may even fail. He also includes different topics of conversation you can use to initiate your conversations and set the context of your interactions. (This segment is just over 26 minutes in length)
Chapter 5 – Connection: With this video, David continues on from the previous segment and explains how to create connections. He explains how the dominant emotions for creating a connection are appreciation and wonder, and goes on to list a few other key emotions you’ll also want to genuinely feel. He stresses that one of the key ingredients, among other things he mentions in this segment, is to use a technique called “screening” to make it so that she’s constantly trying to win your approval, instead of vice versa. He then explains how you can put this technique into action the most effective way possible. (This segment is just over 20 minutes in length)
Chapter 6 – Humor & Vulnerability: With this video, David continues on from the previous segment once again, and explains how to use humor to inject sexual topics of conversation into your interactions very easily. However, he makes it a point to mention that being funny shouldn’t be your main focus, and that you don’t want to try to be the funny guy, otherwise she’ll just see you as a fun time and there won’t be much of a connection. Just sprinkling humor into your interactions is all you need. He reveals a few techniques you can use to add humor to your interactions, and then explains exactly why these techniques are so effective. Finally, he goes over “selective vulnerability” and how you can use it to open up to her, and get her to open up to you. (This segment is just under 29 minutes in length)
Chapter 7 – Jason Capital: With this video, TSM creator Christian Hudson briefly introduces expert dating coach Jason Capital to the program. Jason explains the topic of creating sexual tension, and mentions how desire and attraction make a woman want you, but tension makes a woman want you now. He discusses this topic in detail, so that you’ll have a much better idea of what sexual tension is, and how you can inject it into your interactions with women. (This segment is just under 34 minutes in length)
*SIDE NOTE* You’re also given free downloadable access to Jason’s product on sexual tension within this chapter. He normally sells this product for $97, but when you purchase The Desire System, you get 100% FREE instant access.
Chapter 8 – Sexuality: With this video, David rejoins the program to explain the topic of sexuality, and provides you with numerous techniques you can use to get her seeing you in a sexual light. Some of these techniques overlap with Jason’s techniques which were mentioned in the previous segment. He explains these techniques in great detail, and then goes on to include a few real life demonstrations on his female volunteer, where he shows you some very effective ways to build sexual tension and initiate physical contact with the women you’re interacting with. (This segment is just over 50 minutes in length)
Chapter 9 – On Neediness: With this video, David explains the topic of neediness, and how if you’re applying all the techniques learnt from the program so far to your interactions, but still failing, it’s most likely because she’s seeing you as somewhat of a needy guy. He mentions how when you’re feeling needy, it blocks the positive emotions you’re trying to transfer over to her. He closes the segment by providing you with some solutions so that women never again see you as a needy guy. (This segment is just under 16 minutes in length)
Chapter 10 – On Self-Esteem: With this final video for the actual Desire System, David goes on to explain how self-esteem is the root of all attractive behavior, sub-communications, and emotions. He talks about how once you have self-esteem, the Emotional Activation System is so natural and so easy that you don’t even have to think about it. He goes on to explain the key mindsets you should have, which will help you grow your self-esteem. (This segment is just under 12 minutes in length)
Now that you’ve gotten some detailed descriptions for each of the 10 segments that make up the actual Desire System, let’s take a look at what the LUST portion of this program has to offer (this portion takes the Emotional Activation System one step further)…
Chapter 1 – Introduction: With this LUST introductory video, Christian Hudson gives a brief introduction to Day 2 of the program. He mentions that the LUST portion will take the Emotional Activation System to the next step and explain what to actually do when you’ve started a physical, sexual relationship with a girl, and how to become one of the best lovers she’s ever had (LUST covers more of the psychological aspect of being a great lover). David then enters and goes on to explain that you will make mistakes with the techniques covered throughout this section of the program (which is perfectly normal), but then emphasizes on the importance of revisiting the material and figuring out where you went wrong after making these mistakes. He also explains what it takes to succeed with the information you’ll be learning from LUST. (This segment is just over 23 minutes in length)
Chapter 2 – Personality Conditioning: With this video, David reveals a behavioral psychology called personality conditioning, and then goes on to explain how you have to make good use of the technique called “screening” (as mentioned throughout the Desire System portion of the program), or else you run the risk of conditioning her to have the kind of personality you don’t want. While this sounds like pretty sneaky stuff, David points out that women use this exact same technique on men. He then clearly states that you should only use this kind of conditioning on women if you have good intentions. (This segment is just under 19 minutes in length)
Chapter 3 – On Love: With this video, David goes on to discuss the topic of love, and explains what he believes are the 3 main components of love. These 3 components are sexual attraction, affection, and commitment. He talks about the psychology of love, along with more in-depth explanations of each of the 3 components. He ends the segment by mentioning that, while it’s important to always have the one up on a woman, you never want to play games with her in order to get the one up. This is because when it comes to relationships, it’s only a matter of time before the truth comes out, and she’ll eventually figure out whether or not you’re being genuine with her. (This segment is just over 31 minutes in length)
Chapter 4 – On Relationships: With this video, David discusses the many different types of relationships, such as one night stands, multi-night stands, friends with benefits, the open relationship, and the exclusive relationship, just to name a few. He explains how you can find your way into whichever type of relationship you want with a woman. (This segment is just under 42 minutes in length)
Chapter 5 – David Wygant: With this video, Christian Hudson introduces expert dating coach David Wygant to the program. David talks about the topic of sex, and how one of your primary objectives should be to create that sexual spark in her from the moment you meet her. He also reveals numerous tips and techniques you can use to instantly create that sexual spark in her. (This segment is just under 39 minutes in length)
Chapter 6 – Adam Lyons: With this video, Christian introduces another expert dating coach, Adam Lyons to the program. Adam mentions that everything he teaches is scientifically backed up by psychology. He explains one of his more advanced techniques, and points out that this technique is meant for guys who are more advanced in the area of getting sexual with women, and not recommended for beginners. This technique is based on a psychological concept called “classical conditioning”. He goes into many different techniques and methods that you can use to create positive emotions in women via classical conditioning, which will make it much easier for you to get physical and sexual with the women you like. (This segment is just under 35 minutes in length)
Chapter 7 – Hypnotica: With this video, a mystery guest speaker takes the stage to talk about attracting women in general. He explains how to pass some of the tests women might put you through, and also gives another take on the topic of sexuality. (This segment is just over 44 minutes in length)
Chapter 8 – The Techniques: With this video, David rejoins the program to talk more about the psychology of sex, and also provides some more basic techniques for getting sexual with women. He goes very in-depth into these topics, and then gives a summary of everything covered throughout the LUST portion of the program, ranging from the psychology of love, to the psychology of lust, to finding your way into the relationships of your choice, and finishes up with, as already mentioned, the psychology of sex. He concludes by making this statement, “being the best lover is about being the best guy you can be”. (This segment is just under 54 minutes in length)
I hope these Desire System and LUST Chapter summaries have given you a much better idea of the kind of high quality tips, advice, and techniques this product has to offer. Continue reading to learn more about the free bonuses that are included with every purchase…
The Desire System Bonus Programs
If you’re at all familiar with dating products, you’re probably well aware that most products come with at least a few free bonuses, and The Desire System is no different. In fact, The Desire System and the other TSM products (The Girlfriend Activation System, Say Hello, and HOW2TXTHER) are way ahead of any other dating product I’ve ever come across in this respect. Check out the screenshots below to get a basic overview of the topics covered throughout the “Bonus Training” section inside the Desire System members area:
At the time of this writing there are a total of 18 bonus programs that are fully accessible once you jump inside the members area. These bonuses contain a wide variety of very useful information, ranging from how to have endless conversations, how to meet and attract women in coffee shops, how to get sexual over text message, all the way to tips and advice specific to hooking up over the holidays.
Unfortunately I’m not allowed to reveal too much information about all 18 of these bonuses here in this review, as most of them are meant to be a surprise once you’re actually inside the members area. But I will give you some descriptions of 3 of the main bonuses, followed by a more in-depth overview of “The Way Of The Rake”, which you get free trial access to when you order The Desire System…
Main Bonus #1 – Friends Into Lovers: With this bonus, David discusses the topic of turning a female friend into a lover. He explains what the problem really is and why you’re finding yourself in this situation, 3 different solutions to this problem, and also how to handle this situation when the girl already has a boyfriend. He makes sure his explanations are delivered in great detail. (This video bonus is just under 58 minutes in length)
Main Bonus #2 – Complete Confidence Hypnosis: With this bonus, Christian provides you with a subliminal mind programming tool for installing the “inner voice” of a confident, charismatic man. This bonus consists of 4 Parts (or Steps) which are meant to be listened to on a semi-regular basis, along with instructions for how to use each of the 4 Parts so that you get the best results possible. He also provides you with an explanation as to why these 4 Steps are so effective. (The 6 audio segments for this bonus are approximately 4 hours in length combined)
Main Bonus #3 – Endless Conversations: With this bonus, Christian reveals the dead-simple formula for talking to anyone about anything, and never running out of things to say. He explains how his conversation skills used to be a huge weakness when it came to not only his interactions with women, but in his social interactions as well. He goes on to provide some of his best tips and techniques so that you’ll be able to easily have amazing conversations with anyone, and also provides numerous examples taken from his past experiences. (This video bonus is just over 51 minutes in length)
The Way Of The Rake (8-Month Course): The Way Of The Rake is a 8 month training course which reveals how to live the hedonistic, pleasureful life of a true Rake. The course provides you with 1-2 new videos per week, along with one of David’s exclusive “Lay Reports” and the “East Meets West” Interview Series. The content within this course reveals some of David’s most effective dating strategies and techniques, and will give you lots of new ideas for flirting, teasing, building attraction, and making connections with new women. There are a total of 37 videos delivered over the course of the 9 month program.
With The Way Of The Rake, you’ll learn things like:
- How to take back and hold the power when it comes to the dating game
- How to develop the smoothness of the world’s most legendary seducers
- How to use secret triggers to unlock a woman’s intense sexual desires
- How to use incredible new psychological tactics to get women to act how you want
- How to “hack” her core desires, and solidify your connection with her to an addiction level
- How to triple, or even quadruple, the number of women who want to sleep with you
- How to “dish it back” when women get rude to you, so that you’re in control of your interactions
- How to use numerous strategies for passing a woman’s tests, which allows you to shine where other men fail
- How to cut your seduction time in half and get twice the results
Based on this list of things that you’ll learn from The Way Of The Rake, you can probably already see that this 9-month course is an excellent addition to The Desire System, and compliments it very well. Every month you’ll receive new emails and new videos, all designed to give you even more tips and techniques you can use to further transform yourself into the kind of man that women find irresistible. The course is also an excellent means of keeping you on-track for your goal of sleeping with women, and ensures that you’ll continue working at this stuff until you get the results you’re after.
It’s also worth mentioning that The Social Man is completely dedicated to giving you the most bang for your buck with this product, and the proof is that new bonuses are constantly being added to the members area on a pretty regular basis.
This means that even after you’ve placed your order, studied most of the content, and made your way through most or all of The Way Of The Rake, you can be pretty certain that new bonuses will continue to arrive inside the “Bonus Training” section of the members area, which will give you even more pro tips and techniques to work with.
Want to get a better idea of the kind of tips and advice you’ll learn from David Tian? Watch the video below to get David’s definition of a concept he calls “limiting beliefs”, and learn how they could be holding you back from your true potential with women…
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Is The Desire System the right choice for you?
While the product does contain tips and techniques you can use to either sleep with gorgeous women or get a gorgeous girlfriend, you may be better off making use of a product such as The Girlfriend Activation System if your main goal is to find your way into a relationship. The main emphasis of The Desire System is to show guys how to turn women on and sleep with them.
It’s also worth noting that quite a few of the tips and techniques are geared towards guys who are at a somewhat advanced skill level when it comes to attracting women. However, David does a great job of really simplifying the system for you, and encourages you to watch the videos, put what you’ve learnt to use, make mistakes, then revisit the content and find out where you went wrong. This means that even if you’re more of a beginner when it comes to dating advice, you’ll still be able to use and practice the tips and techniques mentioned throughout the program, and continue to get better and better with women every day.
Even if you think you’re too old to succeed with the system, have too little money, or don’t have the stellar looks that most celebrities possess, The Desire System triumphs over these false beliefs of how to attract women. And that’s because the system is based on real scientific research into female psychology, and has been proven to work for men of all ages, even if they have very little money, or not the best looks.
The rate at which you’ll get results varies largely depending on your starting point and your current mindsets. If you have some pretty good dating advice knowledge already, you’ll probably get good results much quicker than a guy who has no dating advice knowledge. But as mentioned already, no matter what your current skill level is, David’s system is fully capable of showing any guy how to sleep with the kind of women they’ve always dreamed about hooking up with.
When you order the product you’re obligated to sign up for The Way Of The Rake, which is kind of annoying, but it’s not even really an issue. You get a 14-day trial to this complimentary training course, which means you can give it a test run for 2 weeks. If you like the complimentary course you can stay subscribed, or if you decide it’s not for you, you can send an email to The Social Man and ask for your subscription to be cancelled. You’ll still have access to the main Desire System training program should you choose to cancel your subscription, so as you can see this obligation to sign up for the 8 month course isn’t even really an issue.
And the bottom line is, as stated on the order form for The Desire System, if you don’t love the product for any reason, just send an email and you’ll get back every penny without any hassles.
Is The Desire System the right choice for you? If your main goal is to learn how to turn women on and have more sex, if you have the free time available to sit down and study the content, then revisit the content when need be, and if you have the determination to persevere even when the going gets tough, then yes, The Desire System is the right choice for you. Just make sure you’re a good guy who uses the tips and techniques with good, honest intentions, as that’s the only way the system will really work anyway.
Here are just a few of the emails David has received from satisfied customers who have gone through the Desire System…
“I am already loving this program and have only just barely crossed the half way point so far. I think what you all are teaching is incredible. I can’t wait to finish the program and start using these skills to dominate the field in Atlanta. I’ve always been pretty good with girls and have had some great times but I want more. I just got out of a 3 year relationship and my game is definitely rusty. This is the perfect jump start to getting me back out there and making me an overall better man. Love what you guys are doing, keep up the good work! Cheers”
“This program has given me the self awareness and confidence I need to get my life going again. Im talking to and going out on dates with fine women. I was so stuck on this girl and lost my way with her. I was kind of shattered and lost, but now Im gonna kick ass on life!!! Thank you so much for your help. I really thought the process was going to be a big hassle but you made it incredibly easy and I really appreciate that! Thanks a bunch”
“Just wanna say a huge thank you to all you guys, thanks to your programs i feel like a different man, way way more confident with myself and have really begun to be the guy i want to be, met an amazing girl too and all your tips make me feel like a 10. So cant thank you enough for helping me to realize my potential, I’m stronger now and its all because of you guys 🙂 Keep rock and rolling”
– Allan S.
These are just a few of the things men have said about The Desire System after studying the content and using what they’d learnt on the women they like. David has been receiving positive feedback on a very regular basis ever since the program was released to the public a few years ago.
Consumer Alert: Avoid the Desire System free download scam
Just a quick consumer alert that we felt was worth mentioning: The internet is packed with Desire System reviews which say things like “Desire System free PDF download”. These downloads appear to be similar or identical on the outside, but the content is not the actual program. Because of this product’s huge success, it’s obvious that scammers are attracted to it. These fake copies of the product are put out there to get your email address, put cookies on your computer, or in some cases, even put viruses on your computer. Basically, if it’s not from the official site, then we highly recommend you steer clear of it.
Final Thoughts on The Desire System
As this Desire System review has shown, the product was created with the focus of showing regular, ordinary guys how to use psychological discoveries such as emotional contagion to sleep with the kind of women who may currently seem unattainable to them. So if your main goal is to sleep with women, this product is the right choice for you.
However, if your main goal is to get an amazing girlfriend, you may be better off putting your time and money into a product that’s more oriented towards that objective (such as The Girlfriend Activation System), although David’s system can help in that area as well.
Whether you think you’re too old, too poor, or don’t have the best looks, you can still succeed with David’s system because the entire program is based on scientific research into female psychology, and has been proven to work for thousands of guys from all over the world.
While some of the content from the program is geared towards guys who are at a more advanced skill level with dating advice, even beginners will gain a lot from going through the program. And while the guys who already have more advanced skills will probably get quicker results, even those guys who are just starting out will eventually get good results as long as they keep working at it.
And remember, you’ll want to make sure you use the tips and techniques with good, honest intentions, as that’s the only way to truly succeed with the system.
While all 10 Desire Chapters and 8 LUST Chapters are primarily available in video format, David has also made PDF files available for every section. So whether you want to watch the videos or read the PDFs, there’s an option available for whatever style of learning works best for you.
Plus with the implementation of Chapter Quizzes, it’s a really good way to test yourself on the stuff you’ve learnt and make sure you’ve got a good grasp on the key pieces of information before moving onto the next segment.
With the more than 8 hours of video footage for David’s program (including numerous real life demonstrations of the techniques being used on women), the great amount of proven-to-work content from The Way Of The Rake, and the 18 bonuses that are also currently available inside the members area, it’s safe to say there’s no shortage of tips, advice, and techniques for you to learn and master.
However, if you’re interested in purchasing this product you’ll definitely want to make sure you have the free time available to make use of everything it has to offer. There’s tons of valuable content waiting for you inside the members area, and it will take up quite a bit of your time to study through it.
You could say it’s kind of annoying that you’re obligated to sign up for The Way Of The Rake when you buy The Desire System, but as mentioned already, you can give the course a risk-free test run for 2 weeks and if you decide it’s not for you, simply send an email to The Social Man, ask for your subscription to be cancelled, and you won’t be billed for it.
You can access the program from anywhere you want, as long as you have an active internet connection. Whether you’re on your desktop, laptop, tablet, or mobile phone, the members area is accessible from any of these devices. It’s as simple as logging into your account and selecting which section of the program you’d like to take a look at.
Finally, David has helped tens of thousands of men get results, improve their social lives, sex lives, and love lives, myself included. All the advice he teaches is based on scientific research into female psychology, which is the proof that his tips and techniques are very legit.
(Again, if you’re wanting to learn more about David, his life story, and how he went about creating The Desire System, feel free to read our David Tian Biography)
So if you’re ready to take the next step and join the tens of thousands of other guys in improving your overall quality of life, then feel free to click one of the official discount links on this page to get instant access to The Desire System from the official site at the best discount price. Or, if you want to watch the official Desire System video and learn more about how this product can hugely improve your dating and sex life, click the image below to watch it now!
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The Desire System
Ease of Implementation9.4/10
Value for Money9.6/10
- Very good product if your main goal is to sleep with women
- Based on scientific research into female psychology
- Lots of high quality video, and written content
- Provides numerous real life demonstrations of the tips and techniques being used on women
- Useful for men of all skill levels
- 60-day money back guarantee gives you plenty of time to see if the system will work for you
- If your main goal is to get a loving, loyal girlfriend, you may be better off making use of a product more oriented towards that objective (such as The Girlfriend Activation System)
- Some of the content is only useful for guys with advanced dating skills
- Obligated to sign up for The Way Of The Rake, but if you decide the 8-month course isn't for you, you can cancel your subscription and will not be billed for it
- Must have lots of free time available to really learn the system