The Desire System Review (Techniques Revealed)

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The Desire System is a closed-door recorded webinar where dating & relationship expert Dr. David Tian reveals his secret system for effortlessly turning women on to the point where they’re the ones making the moves on you, trying to win you over. This in-depth Desire System review will provide you with everything you need to know about the product, and includes the pros, the cons, and individual ratings for our product criteria in the product summary section at the end.

(If you’re wanting to learn more about David, his life story, and how he went about creating The Desire System, feel free to read our David Tian Biography)

The complete training program consists of more than 8 hours worth of webinar video footage, including Chapter Quizzes at the end of each segment, and also features a few of David’s dating coach colleagues, such as Girlfriend Activation System creator Christian Hudson, expert PUA Jason Capital, and relationship expert David Wygant, to name a few. This Desire System review will also give you with some detailed descriptions of each of the 10 Desire System videos, the main bonus programs, and the TSM Society 14-Day Trial, which you’ll also gain access to.

What’s the basis for the Desire System you may be wondering? Well, the system describes in detail how you can use a psychological process called “emotional contagion” (David’s secret trick) to transfer feelings and emotions of intense attraction over to any woman you’re interacting with. Transferring these emotions doesn’t even have to come in the form of verbal communication either.

In fact, David describes how he discovered this psychological process while he was living overseas in a foreign country, where most of the women didn’t even speak English. Yet by using emotional contagion through non-verbal communication, he was able to almost effortlessly get numerous gorgeous women horny for him and sleep with them despite the language barrier. It was at this point where David decided he would begin teaching his new breakthrough seduction techniques to a few of his private coaching clients, and eventually to the rest of the world via The Desire System.

When you buy The Desire System, you’ll basically discover the step-by-step blueprint for how you’re going to use David’s many secret techniques to spark emotional contagion in a woman, and transfer your pure and true feelings of attraction and desire over to her through neurological pathways. This causes her to feel the exact same attraction and desire for you at a subconscious level.

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Wondering if The Desire System is the right choice for you? Continue reading this Desire System review and I’ll let you know whether or not this product is the right choice for you based on your lifestyle and goals, or whether you’d be better off spending your money elsewhere…

The Desire System & Techniques Revealed

Chapter 1 – Introduction: With this introductory video, Christian Hudson (the creator of the company called The Social Man (TSM), for which The Desire System is one of the main products) briefly introduces Dr. David Tian to the audience. David goes on to give a short summary of his life story and then explains how he discovered The Desire System, also known as the “Emotional Activation System”. (This segment is just over 6 minutes in length)

Chapter 2 – The System In Action: With this video, David gives a condensed explanation as to how the Emotional Activation System really works, and also shows a real life demonstration of the system in action on one of his female volunteers. He explains how attraction is an emotion, which is created by thoughts, and those thoughts are attached to feelings, and it’s these feelings you want to use to make her feel good and become attracted to you. He provides numerous examples of different kinds of positive feelings which, when you genuinely feel them, can be used to make her feel those positive feelings also. (This segment is just over 15 minutes in length)

Chapter 3 – The Science Of Attraction: With this video, David explains the 3 main scientific concepts you need to understand to learn why the Emotional Activation System works. These 3 main concepts are that attraction happens unconsciously, micro expressions are unconscious reflections of feelings and vibes, and you must feel things around her that are attractive to her. He goes on to explain in detail what each of these 3 concepts really mean, and how you can use them to make succeeding with the Emotional Activation System much easier. (This segment is just over 11 minutes in length)

Chapter 4 – The Approach: With this video, David explains everything you’ll need to know from the opening, to initiating the conversation, to setting the context of the interaction. He includes another real life demonstration with another one of his female volunteers, where he shows exactly what your feelings and vibe should be like when you’re opening and initiating the conversation, and then goes on to give a detailed play-by-play of everything that went on in the demonstration. He mentions how you really have to understand what’s going on in the demonstration and how to go about your interactions with women the right way, otherwise your interactions won’t be nearly as effective and may even fail. He also includes different topics of conversation you can use to initiate your conversations and set the context of your interactions. (This segment is just over 26 minutes in length)

Chapter 5 – Connection: With this video, David continues on from the previous segment and explains how to create connections. He explains how the dominant emotions for creating a connection are appreciation and wonder, and goes on to list a few other key emotions you’ll also want to genuinely feel. He stresses that one of the key ingredients, among other things he mentions in this segment, is to use a technique called “screening” to make it so that she’s constantly trying to win your approval, instead of vice versa. He then explains how you can put this technique into action the most effective way possible. (This segment is just over 20 minutes in length)

Chapter 6 – Humor & Vulnerability: With this video, David continues on from the previous segment once again, and explains how to use humor to inject sexual topics of conversation into your interactions very easily. However, he makes it a point to mention that being funny shouldn’t be your main focus, and that you don’t want to try to be the funny guy, otherwise she’ll just see you as a fun time and there won’t be much of a connection. Just sprinkling humor into your interactions is all you need. He reveals a few techniques you can use to add humor to your interactions, and then explains exactly why these techniques are so effective. Finally, he goes over “selective vulnerability” and how you can use it to open up to her, and get her to open up to you. (This segment is just under 29 minutes in length)

Chapter 7 – Jason Capital: With this video, TSM creator Christian Hudson briefly introduces expert dating coach Jason Capital to the program. Jason explains the topic of creating sexual tension, and mentions how desire and attraction make a woman want you, but tension makes a woman want you now. He discusses this topic in detail, so that you’ll have a much better idea of what sexual tension is, and how you can inject it into your interactions with women. (This segment is just under 34 minutes in length)

*SIDE NOTE* You’re also given free downloadable access to Jason’s product on sexual tension within this chapter. He normally sells this product for $97, but when you purchase The Desire System, you get 100% FREE instant access.

Chapter 8 – Sexuality: With this video, David rejoins the program to explain the topic of sexuality, and provides you with numerous techniques you can use to get her seeing you in a sexual light. Some of these techniques overlap with Jason’s techniques which were mentioned in the previous segment. He explains these techniques in great detail, and then goes on to include a few real life demonstrations on his female volunteer, where he shows you some very effective ways to build sexual tension and initiate physical contact with the women you’re interacting with. (This segment is just over 50 minutes in length)

Chapter 9 – On Neediness: With this video, David explains the topic of neediness, and how if you’re applying all the techniques learnt from the program so far to your interactions, but still failing, it’s most likely because she’s seeing you as somewhat of a needy guy. He mentions how when you’re feeling needy, it blocks the positive emotions you’re trying to transfer over to her. He closes the segment by providing you with some solutions so that women never again see you as a needy guy. (This segment is just under 16 minutes in length)

Chapter 10 – On Self-Esteem: With this final video for the actual Desire System, David goes on to explain how self-esteem is the root of all attractive behavior, sub-communications, and emotions. He talks about how once you have self-esteem, the Emotional Activation System is so natural and so easy that you don’t even have to think about it. He goes on to explain the key mindsets you should have, which will help you grow your self-esteem. (This segment is just under 12 minutes in length)

The Desire System Bonus Programs

If you’re at all familiar with dating products, you’re probably well aware that most products come with at least a few free bonuses, and The Desire System is no different. Check out the screenshots below to get a basic overview of the topics covered throughout the “Bonus Training” section inside the Desire System member’s area:

At the time of this writing there are a total of 18 bonus programs that are fully accessible once you jump inside the member’s area. These bonuses contain a wide variety of very useful information, ranging from how to have endless conversations, how to meet and attract women in coffee shops, how to get sexual over text message, all the way to tips and advice specific to hooking up over the holidays.

Unfortunately I’m not allowed to reveal too much information about all 18 of these bonuses here in this review, as most of them are meant to be a surprise once you’re actually inside the members area. But I will give you some descriptions of the 3 main bonuses, followed by an overview of the TSM Society, which you get free trial access to when you order The Desire System…

Main Bonus #1 – Friends Into Lovers: With this bonus, David discusses the topic of turning a female friend into a lover. He explains what the problem really is and why you’re finding yourself in this situation, 3 different solutions to this problem, and also how to handle this situation when the girl already has a boyfriend. He makes sure his explanations are delivered in great detail. (This video bonus is just under 58 minutes in length)

Main Bonus #2 – Complete Confidence Hypnosis: With this bonus, Christian provides you with a subliminal mind programming tool for installing the “inner voice” of a confident, charismatic man. This bonus consists of 4 Parts (or Steps) which are meant to be listened to on a semi-regular basis, along with instructions for how to use each of the 4 Parts so that you get the best results possible. He also provides you with an explanation as to why these 4 Steps are so effective. (The 6 audio segments for this bonus are approximately 4 hours in length combined)

Main Bonus #3 – Endless Conversations: With this bonus, Christian reveals the dead-simple formula for talking to anyone about anything, and never running out of things to say. He explains how his conversation skills used to be a huge weakness when it came to not only his interactions with women, but in his social interactions as well. He goes on to provide some of his best tips and techniques so that you’ll be able to easily have amazing conversations with anyone, and also provides numerous examples taken from his past experiences. (This video bonus is just over 51 minutes in length)

TSM Society (14-Day Trial): You’ll also get free trial access to The Social Man Society – the elite, ass-kicking member’s only community featuring exclusive insider interviews, courses, live Q&A webinars, and action plans to help you quickly internalize everything you learn at TSM, bring you success and happiness, and WIN at life. It’s only $24.20 per week, billed monthly, and you will only be charged after if you stay past the 14 day trial. You’re free to cancel at any time with zero hassle by simply calling 888-405-1915, or replying to Christian’s welcome email, and requesting cancellation.

It’s also worth mentioning that new bonuses are constantly being added to the “bonus training” section inside the members area. So even after you’ve gone through the 10 main chapters for this training program, and made use of the many free bonuses, you can be pretty certain that new bonuses will continue making their way into the “bonus training” section.

Want to get a better idea of the kind of tips and advice you’ll learn from David Tian? Watch the video below to get David’s definition of a concept he calls “limiting beliefs”, and learn how they could be holding you back from your true potential with women…

Here's how limiting beliefs could be holding you back from your true potential with women...

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Is The Desire System the right choice for you?

As the name of the product insinuates, The Desire System was designed to show regular, ordinary men how to create intense desire and lust in the women they’re interacting with.

While the program contains tips, advice, and techniques you can use to either hook up with amazing women or get an amazing girlfriend, the main emphasis of The Desire System is to show men how to sleep with women.

It’s also worth noting that quite a few of the tips and techniques are geared towards men who are at a somewhat advanced skill level when it comes to attracting women. However, David does a great job of really simplifying the system for you, and encourages you to watch the videos, put what you’ve learnt to use, make mistakes, then revisit the content and find out where you went wrong. This means that even if you’re more of a beginner when it comes to dating advice, you’ll still be able to use and practice the tips and techniques mentioned throughout the program, and continue to get better and better with women every day.

Even if you think you’re too old to succeed with the system, too poor, or too physically unattractive, The Desire System triumphs over these false beliefs of how to attract women. This is because the system is based on research into female psychology, and has been proven to work for men of all ages, even if they have very little money, and not the best looks.

The rate at which you’ll get results varies largely depending on your starting point and your current mindsets. If you have some pretty good dating advice knowledge already, you’ll probably get good results much quicker than a man who has no dating advice knowledge. But as mentioned already, no matter where your current skill level is, David’s system is fully capable of showing any man how to sleep with the kind of women they’ve always dreamed of.

When you order the product you’re obligated to sign up for the TSM Society, which is kind of annoying, but it’s not even really an issue. You get a 14-day trial to this complimentary training program, which means you can give it a test run for 2 weeks. If you like the TSM Society you can stay subscribed, or if you decide it’s not for you, you can send an email to The Social Man and ask for your subscription to be cancelled. You’ll still have access to the main Desire System training program should you choose to cancel your subscription, so as you can see this obligation to sign up for the TSM Society isn’t even really an issue.

I’d also like to mention that you’re given more than enough time to see if the Desire System will work for you. A 60 day money back guarantee is included with every purchase.

And the bottom line is, as stated on the order form for The Desire System, if you don’t love the product for any reason, just send an email and you’ll get back every penny without any hassles.

Is The Desire System the right choice for you? If your main goal is to sleep with more women, you have the free time available to study the content, then revisit the content when need be, and if you have the determination to succeed, then yes, The Desire System is the right choice for you. Just make sure you’re a good man who uses the tips and techniques with good, honest intentions, as that’s the only way the system will really work anyway.

Consumer Testimonials

Here are just a few emails David has received from satisfied customers who have gone through the Desire System…

“I am already loving this program and have only just barely crossed the half way point so far. I think what you all are teaching is incredible. I can’t wait to finish the program and start using these skills to dominate the field in Atlanta. I’ve always been pretty good with girls and have had some great times but I want more. I just got out of a 3 year relationship and my game is definitely rusty. This is the perfect jump start to getting me back out there and making me an overall better man. Love what you guys are doing, keep up the good work! Cheers”

– Jason

“This program has given me the self awareness and confidence I need to get my life going again. Im talking to and going out on dates with fine women. I was so stuck on this girl and lost my way with her. I was kind of shattered and lost, but now Im gonna kick ass on life!!! Thank you so much for your help. I really thought the process was going to be a big hassle but you made it incredibly easy and I really appreciate that! Thanks a bunch”

– Matt

“Just wanna say a huge thank you to all you guys, thanks to your programs i feel like a different man, way way more confident with myself and have really begun to be the guy i want to be, met an amazing girl too and all your tips make me feel like a 10. So cant thank you enough for helping me to realize my potential, I’m stronger now and its all because of you guys 🙂 Keep rock and rolling”

– Allan S.

These are just a few of the things men have said about The Desire System after studying the content and using what they’d learnt with the women they like. David has been receiving positive feedback on a very regular basis ever since the program was released to the public a few years ago.

Consumer Alert: Avoid the Desire System free download scam

Just a quick consumer alert that we felt was worth mentioning: The internet is packed with Desire System reviews which say things like “Desire System free PDF download”. These downloads appear to be similar or identical on the outside, but the content is not the actual program. Because of this product’s huge success, it’s obvious that scammers are attracted to it. These fake copies of the product are put out there to get your email address, put cookies on your computer, or in some cases, put viruses on your computer. Basically, if it’s not from the official site, then we highly recommend you steer clear of it.

Final Thoughts on The Desire System

As this Desire System review has shown, the product was created with the focus of showing regular, ordinary men how to use psychological discoveries such as emotional contagion to sleep with the kind of women who may currently seem unattainable to them. So if your main goal is to sleep with women, this product is the right choice for you.

However, if your main goal is to get an amazing girlfriend, you may be better off putting your time and money into a product that’s more oriented towards that objective, although David’s system can help in that area as well.

Whether you think you’re too old, too poor, or don’t have the best looks, you can still succeed with David’s system because the entire program is based on scientific research into female psychology, and has been proven to work for thousands of guys from all over the world.

While some of the content is geared towards men who are at more of an advanced skill level, even beginners will benefit from going through the program. And while the men who already have more advanced skills will probably get quicker results, even the men who are just starting out can get good results as long as they keep working at it.

And remember, you’ll want to make sure you use the tips and techniques with good, honest intentions, as that’s the only way to truly succeed with the system.

While all 10 Desire System Chapters are primarily available in video format, PDF files are also made available for every section. So whether you want to watch the videos or read the PDFs, there’s an option available for whatever style of learning works best for you.

Plus with the implementation of Chapter Quizzes, it’s a really good way to test yourself on the stuff you’ve learnt and make sure you’ve got a good grasp on the key pieces of information before moving onto the next segment.

With the more than 3.5 hours of video footage for David’s program (including numerous real life demonstrations of the techniques being used on women), the great amount of proven-to-work content from the TSM Society, and the 18 bonuses that are also currently available inside the member’s area, it’s safe to say there’s no shortage of tips, advice, and techniques for you to learn and master.

However, if you’re interested in purchasing this product you’ll definitely want to make sure you have the free time available to make use of everything it has to offer. There’s tons of valuable content waiting for you inside the member’s area, and it will take up quite a bit of your time to study through it.

You could say it’s kind of annoying that you’re obligated to sign up for the TSM Society when you buy The Desire System, but as mentioned already, you can give the complimentary program a risk-free test run for 2 weeks and if you decide it’s not for you, simply send an email to The Social Man, ask for your subscription to be cancelled, and you won’t be billed for it.

You can access the program from anywhere you want, as long as you have an active internet connection. Whether you’re on your desktop, laptop, tablet, or mobile phone, the member’s area is accessible from any of these devices. It’s as simple as logging into your account and selecting which section of the program you’d like to take a look at.

Finally, David has helped tens of thousands of men improve their lives, and find their way into loving relationships, myself included. When I was just starting out with dating advice, he played a key role in turning me into the kind of man that women love to be around. Thanks to him I was able to meet and attract my first girlfriend in over 5 years, then go on to meet many more women, including my current loving, loyal girlfriend. All the advice he teaches is based on research into female psychology, which is the proof that his tips, advice, and techniques are very legit.

(Again, if you’re wanting to learn more about David, his life story, and how he went about creating The Desire System, feel free to read our David Tian Biography)

So if you’re ready to take the next step and join the tens of thousands of other guys in improving your overall quality of life, then feel free to click one of the official discount links on this page to get instant access to The Desire System from the official site at the best discount price. Or, if you want to watch the official Desire System video and learn more about how this product can hugely improve your dating and sex life, click the image below to watch it now!

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Have you already gone through the Desire System training program? Or do you have any questions? Feel free to share your thoughts below.

The Desire System




Ease of Implementation


Customer Service


Value for Money



  • Very good product if your main goal is to sleep with women
  • Based on research into female psychology
  • Lots of high quality video, and written content
  • Provides numerous real life demonstrations of the tips and techniques being used on women
  • Useful for men of all skill levels
  • 60-day money back guarantee gives you plenty of time to see if the system will work for you


  • If your main goal is to get a loving, loyal girlfriend, you may be better off making use of a product more oriented towards that objective
  • Some of the content is only useful for guys with advanced dating skills
  • Obligated to sign up for the TSM Society, but if you decide this complimentary training program isn't for you, you can cancel your subscription and will not be billed for it
  • Must have lots of free time available to really learn the system

About Author

Matt Webber has been helping men and women gain empowerment in their dating and relationship lives for over 6 years now... with LEVO Magazine, Matt's goal is to provide men and women with the skills, mindsets, and motivation for achieving their dating & relationship, health & fitness, e-marketing goals... and living the life of their dreams!


  1. Is there any way to purchase this program offline? I’d like to try it out but I don’t want to receive all the promotional emails which usually go with these products

    • Hey Peter, the Desire System is only available for purchase online. However, if you would rather not receive any emails after placing your order all you have to do is click the “unsubscribe” link at the bottom of the email. This will make it so that you don’t receive anymore emails from the sender. Hope this helps.

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